Why It's So Hard To Speak Out Love

Many of us has played role of "Secret Lovers" This Article Is Dedicated to that "Secret Lover" Inside You... I find one thing very strange about Expressing love, So easily we are able to say "I Love You" to a friend whom we actually don't love and we also say "I love U" to a stranger with whom we want to flirt but when this heart actually falls in love with someone we fear so much. Speaking "I Love U" to that  person becomes the most daring job in this World :'(

We start believing on language of eyes, we don't miss a single chance to catch a glans of her. We follow the person we love everywhere, at times we bunk lectures, lie friends and screw our daily schedule just to follow her and know everything that she does. If she eats a chocolate, that wrapper becomes our biggest assets, if she likes someone.. that someone is our worst enemy :)

This love makes us behave so stupid sometimes, we go to bed thinking about her and we start planing that what we will say to her when we meet next time "i know you must be having many friends as you are so pretty.. i too want to be your friend. By saying "yes" to my friendship you will just add another name to long list of your admirers but i will get my world !! i will get a reason to live, a reason to admire my life !!". All the plans that we make before sleep may work at times in our dreams but when she comes in front of us as a person we fail to try and Just watch her beautiful face.

Today i received a email written by Sithmini Aluthge, she has sent me a poem to publish and she says " idea about this poem just popped into my head after looking at those guys in my university keep who looking at the girls they love but they never show it to those girls.."

Untold Love

Maybe he is thinking as the way i`m thinking 

Maybe he is looking at my eyes secretly 

Maybe he is waiting till i come

Maybe he is following my foot path 

Maybe he is dreaming to hold my hand

Maybe he is loving me more than I do

His eyes tell me about the untold story of his love

But why his words are still silent? 

Poem Written By Sithmini Aluthge

After Reading these words, after reading this poem written by her i understood that what we "Secret Lovers" actually think is correct, Words of eyes are not actually flop it has managed to convey your message to your lovers heart. But lets not forget a rule of love, a girl will wait for life but she will never first approach you to speak out the feeling of your heart.. A boy is expected to propose first !!

Friends do you know why right girl always finds a wrong guy and why a true love suffers loneliness ?? you will get the answer just by keeping 3 points together from this article.

1>  ...So easily we are able to say "I Love You" to a friend whom we actually don't love and we also say "I love U" to a stranger with whom we want to flirt...

So a boy who manage to proposes a girl is not actually in love with her.

2> ...a girl will wait for life but she will never first approach you to speak out the feeling of your heart.. A boy is expected to propose first !!...

The one who loved did not propose so the girl will say "Yes" to one of them who proposed her .

3> ...if she likes someone.. that someone is our worst enemy...

A true lover fails to express his love but continue to hate the one the girl is with.

Thus i will like to end this article suggesting all the "Secret Lovers" to Unfold the secret before she finds her wrong man !! Yes, i know its difficult to express love in front of her too where you expect 100% chance of "Yes" but i also know its more then difficult to see your love in arms of someone else.